Meting a cougar is not the easiest thing to do in the dating world. As a matter of fact, it is much harder than most men assume. Often a man’s perception of a cougar is of a desperate MILF with more time on her hands than she knows what to do with. Often ignored and taken for granted, there is a needy cougar around every corner. This could not be farther from the truth and believing this stereotype can get your feelings hurt, for sure and perhaps your heart broken as well. Cougars are only women, but they are women who have lived lives full of excitement and action. They have been around a few blocks and seen a few rodeos of their own. It is best not to underestimate them and it sure doesn’t pay to treat them with disrespect. They are experienced women who know exactly what they want.
Now that you know a little about cougars, the trick is to find one. While it is true that cougars are simply women, they also have ideas and sentiments that are all their own garnered from years of life experience. You can meet cougars in any of the tried and true venues you meet other women, including online and via social media. They key is how you approach them. There are cougars galore on social media and dating apps like Tinder. You can probably spot one and make an approach but there is no guarantee she will respond. Choosing a cougar is not a sure thing when it comes to sex and romance. You have to be on your game more than ever.
How To Approach A Cougar On Tinder
Finding a cougar that makes your heart skip a beat is the easy part. The part that requires skill and no-how is approaching her. You need a game plan from the start if you’re after a cougar. They can smell b.s. a mile away and have no time for boys. Do not approach a cougar on Tinder with a general greeting like How is your week going? To a mature woman this simply means you have no idea what to say to her or how to approach her. Instead, zone in on something more specific. It shows you have an interest in her and have taken the time to learn about her life.
How To Catch A Cougars Attention On Tinder
Another great way to catch a cougar’s attention on Tinder is to make sure you give a specific reason why you chose her to contact. It will have to be something in addition to the obvious physical attract. Don’t be afraid to mention a sense of humor and show your own. Personality is a big deal to cougars. They don’t have a need to waste their efforts on a man they don’t really enjoy. It may be the color of her hair or the jaunt of her smile. Maybe you love green eyes or she looks like Sofia Vagara. Whatever the reason, let her know.
Take Advantage Of The Age Setting On Tinder
A technical feature that can help you find cougars on Tinder is the age setting. Do not forget that you can chose the age range of the women you see by adjusting the age setting in your preference profile. You may also need to adjust the geography settings as well. You will get more choices by widening your search area. Consider setting it for at least 100 miles surrounding you. A quick hack that usually works is to change your own age to a higher age. Tinder will try to match you to people you to people in your own demographic. Check all your settings to make sure they are optimized for maximum cougar potential.
Keep Real When Meeting Cougars On Tinder
Honesty goes a long way when searching for a cougar. It doesn’t seem like Tinder is a great place to express real honesty but there are indeed ways to do so. Your Tinder profile blurb and other statements she may see are actually tiny pick-up lines in the works. If they read authentic and real, it’s a win in your favor. A lot of braggadocio is counterproductive. Simple, easy phrases to describe yourself and what you are looking for come off as rugged and manly, exactly what cougars are attracted to.
Finding a cougar on Tinder is easy. The hard part is approaching her and getting her interested enough in you to accept a date invitation. As in all relationships, there has to be a spark of attraction, an ignition of interest for both people. That where you begin. It is up to you to be able to develop and maintain a spark that is capable of getting the attention of a cougar and is something she can appreciate. It is all about attention and honesty. If those are traits you have or can cultivate well, head over to Tinder and get yourself a cougar.