{"id":23,"date":"2016-06-09T19:19:06","date_gmt":"2016-06-09T19:19:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/onlycougars.com\/blog\/?p=23"},"modified":"2016-07-06T04:51:18","modified_gmt":"2016-07-06T04:51:18","slug":"5-tips-for-dating-recently-divorced-cougar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/onlycougars.com\/blog\/5-tips-for-dating-recently-divorced-cougar\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Tips For Dating A Recently Divorced Cougar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Some young men wonder why you would ever date a cougar, but these are almost exclusively the men who have never met a true specimen. Why date a cougar?<\/a> Because if you find yourself flirting with a sexy and powerful woman who actually has some money saved, can pick out fine wines, and is able to talk politics and stocks without batting an eye, you do anything but say, \u201cno, thank you.\u201d In fact, all you really need to do is buckle your seatbelt and let her take charge because any cougar worth her salt has been around the block awhile and already knows exactly what she wants.
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\nIf you find a cougar that is recently divorced, the game changes a little bit. She may have a bit more baggage<\/a>, but all of that comes with more experience as well. Depending on how long she was married or how messy the divorce got, she might just be looking to use you once and drop you off an hour after you meet. Alternatively, she may feel a little lonely and you could end up with a regular feline-with-benefits situation on your hands. Either way, here are some general tips to get the most out of your safari and avoid getting eaten (you know what I mean). <\/p>\n

1. Keep it drama-free<\/h3>\n

She already got a lifetime\u2019s worth of drama during her divorce, so you can bet your ass that she doesn\u2019t want more from you. Besides, half the reason many men date an older woman is to avoid all of that drama that women in their \u201820s seem to thrive on. When dating a cougar, it is always best to keep everything casual. Don\u2019t overthink comments she makes or certain situations, and definitely don\u2019t get too sensitive about the things she may say or not say. She knows exactly what she wants from you, and putting up with drama is not part of the deal. Going along with that<\/p>\n

2. Don\u2019t be self-conscious<\/h3>\n

The cougar is a woman who has a wealth of experience that make these extra couple years between you all the more enjoyable. The recently-divorced cougar likely has even more experience across the range of relationships. She was married for years before she met you; she already knows exactly who she is, what her strengths and weaknesses are, and how get what she needs from a hookup or a relationship. You need to get on her level. She wants a man who is direct. She wants a man who won\u2019t be second-guessing everything from conversation to sex positions. The time to be self-conscious was before you started dating her. If you want to do something, follow through and she\u2019ll let you know if she isn\u2019t cool with it.
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