{"id":17,"date":"2016-06-03T19:15:48","date_gmt":"2016-06-03T19:15:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/onlycougars.com\/blog\/?p=17"},"modified":"2016-07-06T04:51:00","modified_gmt":"2016-07-06T04:51:00","slug":"when-your-older-girlfriend-wants-to-be-your-sugar-mamma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/onlycougars.com\/blog\/when-your-older-girlfriend-wants-to-be-your-sugar-mamma\/","title":{"rendered":"How To React If Your Older Girlfriend Wants To Be Your Sugar Momma"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dating a cougar can be more complicated than your average relationship with a woman your age. In your 20s, you are most likely still trying to figure your life out and are not very financially stable. Your cougar girlfriend, on the other hand, is likely financially comfortable and already knows exactly what she wants out of life (or at least knows what she hasn\u2019t liked so far). Still, millions of men have successful relationships with cougars every year and it\u2019s by no means difficult if you can get over the taboo. What do you do, though, when the dynamic of your relationship with an older woman shifts from more serious to less serious and she wants to become your sugar momma<\/a>?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s Not Just About The Money<\/h3>\n

Let\u2019s get more specific. One big concern for most older women looking to date younger men is that the younger man will end up relying on her financially and she will just end up being used and hurt. This is why it\u2019s important to establish in your cougar-cub relationship that money isn\u2019t an issue for either of you and just be financially respectful with each other. Maturity is, after all, the bedrock off these relationships. How do you react though if your older girlfriend goes to the other end of the spectrum and tells you that she wants to be your sugar momma?
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\nFirst of all, you need to decide if you want a sugar momma style relationship<\/a> to be serious because at this point it is no longer a serious for her. This may be a bit emotionally rough for you if, up to this point, this was a serious romantic relationship for you. From this view, her proposal to make things less serious and more financial can be hurtful, even if it does technically benefit your bank account. Now, if this was just a friends-with-benefits situation in the first place, then maybe all this is to you is the addition of another benefit. Either way, your reaction should come from how you have viewed the relationship up to this point.<\/p>\n

Are you OK With The Role Reversals<\/h3>\n

If you weren\u2019t taking the relationship too seriously anyway, then you next need to figure out if you\u2019re even comfortable with this type of arrangement. Money is a tricky subject. It\u2019s possible that you may really need to money or a new car or really want that vacation, and here it is on a silver platter. Some guys will be sold and have no problem with it. More power to you, you can stop reading this article here and go enjoy your sugar momma. Still, some men may have some moral issues with a situation like this for a couple reasons. First of all, a friends-with-benefits relationship turned sugar-momma relationship tends to feel more like prostitution than most men are comfortable with. Most men also don\u2019t like the idea of feeling like they owe her something for all of the great gifts, dinner, and vacations she wants to provide for him. Maybe she gets off on the idea of you needing her, but the question is, do you?
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