{"id":11,"date":"2016-05-14T19:14:22","date_gmt":"2016-05-14T19:14:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/onlycougars.com\/blog\/?p=11"},"modified":"2016-07-06T04:50:26","modified_gmt":"2016-07-06T04:50:26","slug":"how-to-drive-a-cougar-wild-in-bed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/onlycougars.com\/blog\/how-to-drive-a-cougar-wild-in-bed\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Drive A Cougar Wild In Bed"},"content":{"rendered":"

Many guys in their mid-20s get tired of dating all of the same girls also in their mid-20s. You\u2019re both broke, trying to figure out life, trying to do what\u2019s best for you while trying not to be too selfish. Dating during this time of your life can be difficult. Enter: The Cougar. A woman with life already under her belt, who just wants to be excited and surprised and romanced by a man who isn\u2019t also going through is midlife crisis.
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\nSo let\u2019s say you found that cougar who just drives you wild. Click here<\/a> for reasons you should date a cougar. She\u2019s intelligent, mature, sexy, wry, and actually has some financial comfort. She makes you want to get your shit together, and you make her feel alive again. The next step, of course, is making sure the sex is fantastic. Everyone in a mature relationship knows that sex is extremely important<\/a>. The frequency alone may not necessarily be an issue, but the quality of the sex and the depth of the connection between you is the bedrock of any great relationship. So how can you guarantee that you won\u2019t make her regret her decision in pursuing a cub?<\/p>\n

Be creative and keep your cougar guessing<\/h3>\n

Missionary<\/a> isn\u2019t going to cut it more than once, so learn some new sex positions if your arsenal is a little thin. She wants some excitement form you, so keep varying the ways that you make her orgasm and she\u2019ll always be surprised and satisfied. If you\u2019re going to role play or dabble in sadomasochism, maybe don\u2019t surprise her with that. After all, sex is a team sport. Never let yourself become predictable in bed though. Hell, mix it up one night and give her an orgasm in the shower entirely by oral. Speaking of which<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go straight for the goal<\/h3>\n

You may be able to get away with some light dirty talk<\/a> and going straight for penetration with your girlfriends from college, but this is a whole new ball game, bud. Even if your older girlfriend is less intimate and into the rougher stuff doesn\u2019t mean you need to forgo the romance. Always keep kissing in play (as soft, passionate, or rough as the situation calls for) and make sure she is begging for it before you think about penetration. She is sexually experienced enough to know how important foreplay is, so you better not ignore it on your end. Make sure she doesn\u2019t just want it, she has to need it.<\/p>\n

Be confident, but not dominating when dating a cougar<\/h3>\n

A cougar goes out and finds herself a cub because she\u2019s looking for stamina, virility, and enthusiasm in bedroom. Make sure you bring all of those things to the table or kitchen floor, or Target bathroom, I won\u2019t judge and make sure the vibe you give off is strong and confident and not timid and hesitant. That being said, your cougar has as many sexual years as you\u2019ve been alive, so you\u2019d be a fool not to pay attention to her erotic wisdom. If she non-verbally suggests a position change or something you weren\u2019t expecting, it\u2019s in both of your best interests for you to go with the flow and let her teach you something. Sage advice is never to be ignored.
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